It is the focusing on the self love, that prevents the other love and here is why.
Knowledge comes from how much of the holographic reference beam is being reflected to your position in the phase states of mind.
The holographic reference beam can be understood to amount to your education. The beam holds all the information from everybody who ever lived (and maybe more) but you only know so much and that is like saying you are only tuned in to a small amount of the beam.
In order to change your tune or phase one must use their consciousness
to suppress the false ideas. Such an action leads to a phase space
that has more illumination.
Illumination comes from those around us. It does not come from inside them, but by them arranging their insides in such a way that they reflect what they receive to others. If we emit truth then truth is absorbed by those around us.
We understand that if an emission is reabsorbed by the emitter and no one else, then there was no collapse into truth.
The emitter emits and imagines absorption to his her pleasure.
The emission has no hand shake with the future.
It is the involvement in the emission and absorption of this type that prevents the emitter from accessing a larger portion of the
holographic reference beam.
Truth comes from outside the mind so when the mind creates its own truth it does so because it is focused inward rather than outward. The focus is on the emission from within rather than a reflection from the holographic knowledge beam.
On the other hand, when the emission is true and accepted and collapse occurs the collapse unites into one the holographic reference beams from both the emitter and absorber into a common center of intention which produces a common new phase state.
Truth then becomes a reunification of the holographic reference beam (knowledge) between formerly opposing views or centers of intention. When true, both reflect the same knowledge and therefore have the same intent or common center.